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ʻOiaiʻo ka mare pono'ī he mea pili i ka pilina kanaka,ʻo ka makemake e noho i loko o ke kāne he mea ola. ʻO ka wahine a me ka hoʻopaʻaʻana he mau uku maoli. ʻO nā kānaka he māhele o ka hui ma lalo o 5% o nā mammals i kapaʻia lua mau mea paʻa. ʻO kēia keʻano o ko mākou mau lolo e hana ai i ko mākou ola no ke ola, e pili i ka pilina kanaka, e like me nā pipi. Hāʻawi lākou iā mākou e hoʻopaʻa i ka lōʻihi, lōʻihi no nā mea mālamaʻelua e hānai i kā lāua mau keiki. Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole i like ka 'pili i ka pilina' keʻano likeʻole i ka 'moekolohe kāne'. ʻO ka ho'āʻoʻana e 'pāʻani aku i ka home' aia ma kahi kokoke i nā mea maʻi a pau me nā kānaka. Hiki ke nānā maikaʻiʻia nā puke maanei.

ka pūnaehana uku kahi e hoʻopaʻaʻia ai kēia mau pilina paʻa lua. ʻO ia nāʻano likeʻole e hoʻohuli iā mākou i nā kumu kūlohelohe maoli o kaʻai a me ka wai. ʻO ka mea kaumaha,ʻo ia kahi i hanaʻia aiʻole nā ​​hana hana likeʻole me ka waiʻona, nicotine, a me nā lāʻau lapaʻau. Hoʻopili lākou i ka polokalamu makemake / uku. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo nā uku hana i likeʻole me ka cocaine a me ka waiʻona e hiki ai ke hoʻoikaika i ka manaʻo o ka euphoria ma mua o ka moekolohe. Uaʻike nā mea noiʻi he mau mea paʻa paʻaʻelua, i hoʻohālikelikeʻia me nā holoholona e moe kolohe me keʻano, eʻoi aku ka maʻalahi i ka mea hōʻailona. Eʻike mākou ma hope aku ma lalo o The Coolidge Effect under why this is a real problem for sustaining love.

Pono ka hoʻopaʻaʻana a me ka hilinaʻi. Hoʻokau pinepine mākou e hōʻike i ke aloha ma o ko mākou kino e like me ke kāohiʻana, ka honiʻana, ka hoʻopiʻiʻana, ke komoʻana a me ka moe. ʻO ka pāʻani aloha "hoʻopūpī i ka holoholonaʻino" a he ho'ōla loa ia. ʻO nā wāhine me ka loina aloha aloha e pili ana i ke kino ho'ōla wikiwiki ma hope o ka hōʻeha. Inā mākou e noʻonoʻo i ke aloha e pili ana i ka 'aloha,' aiʻole i ke kuko a me ke kuko, uaʻike muaʻia kēia mau manaʻo a me nā manaʻo ma ka lolo. No laila, ma o ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana e hiki ai iā mākou keʻike i ka hana a ka lolo e kōkua ai iā mākou eʻike i nā manaʻo e hoʻonui i ke ola ma kaʻaoʻao maʻamau.

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