WELINA

Lana koʻu hauʻoli i ke kauwela. Ua hana nui nā limahana TRF no ka hoʻomākaukau no ka wā hou i mua me nā haʻawina kula e hoʻomaka ana ma ka lā 1st o Kepakemapa, nā kamaʻilio no nā GP a me nā papa hana. Ke kākau nei mākou i nā pepa, e noi ana no ke kālā a me ka hui ʻana i ka laulā o ka poʻe i ke aupuni, nā luna kūloko, i nā hui manawaleʻa a me nā media e hiki ke kōkua i ka lawe i kā mākou hana i mua. E hoʻomaopopo mākou iā ʻoe i ka ulu ʻana o kēlā mau pilina.

Hāʻawiʻia nā pane a pau e Mary Sharpe mary@rewardfoundation.org.

Ma kēia kūmole

Hoʻopilikia i nā keiki ma Germany a me UK

Ma ka lā 28 o Iulai ua hele ʻo TRF i kahi hanana hoʻomaʻamaʻa hoʻokahi lā e NOTA (National Organization for the Treatment of Abusers Scotland) me 2 mau haʻi ʻōlelo maikaʻi loa. ʻO ka mea mua ʻo Professor Klaus Beier (kiʻi ʻia), he loea o ka honua i ka pale ʻana i ka hana hoʻomāinoino keiki a me ka mea kālai kiʻi o ka Ka Papa Hana Puʻukia Dunkelfeld i Kelemānia. ʻO ka lua,ʻo iaʻo Professor Kieran McCartan, he criminologist ma ke Kulanuiʻo Bristol, nāna iʻimi i nā hopena o kēia manawa a me nā hana e hiki ai ke hana me ka poʻe hewa ma ka UK ma muli o nā haʻawina mai ka papahana Dunkelfeld. Eʻike i kā mākou moʻolelo maanei.

ʻO ka palekana i nā moe kolohe

ʻO Mary Sharpe, ko mākou Luna Hoʻokele he mea kākau o kahi 'manaʻo ʻāpana' ma Preventing Adolescent Harmful Sexual Behaviour no NOTA, ka National Organization for the Cloth of Abusers. ʻO NOTA kahi manawaleʻa e hāʻawi i ke kākoʻo no nā ʻoihana e pili ana i nā lawehala kolohe. I kēia kālailai ʻana o nā noiʻi hou, ua komo ʻo Mary i UK a puni kahi kime i alakaʻi ʻia e Stuart Allardyce, ka National Manager o Stop It Now! Sekotia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kahi moʻolelo ma kēia maanei.

Nānā: E nānā i ke olakino

ʻO ka mea aʻu i koho ai no kēia nūpepa Ka hopena o ka pūnaewele ponokalakala ma luna o nā kamaliʻi. Ua kākau ʻia e ka American College of Pediatricians ma ke ʻano he ʻōlelo kulekele a me nā lā mai Iune 2016.

MAKAHI:  ʻO ka loaʻa a me ka hoʻohana ʻana o nā ponokala kiʻi e lilo i mea kokoke i waena o nā mākua a me nā ʻōpio. Pili ka ʻai ʻana i nā ponokala kiʻi me nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole o ka naʻau, psychological, a me nā hopena olakino kino. Hoʻopili kēia i ka nui o ke kaumaha, ka hopohopo, ka hana a me ka hana kolohe, ka makahiki ʻōpio o ka moekolohe, ka moekolohe moekolohe, ka nui o ka pilikia o ka hāpai ʻōpio, a me ka nānā hewa i nā pilina ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine. No nā mākua, nā hopena o nā ponokala kiʻi i ka hoʻonui ʻia o ka likelike o ka hemo a hoʻopōʻino hoʻi i nā keiki. Koi aku ke Kulanui ʻAmelika o Pediatricians i nā ʻoihana olakino e hōʻike i nā pilikia o ka hoʻohana pono ʻana i nā ponokala kiʻi i nā mea maʻi a me ko lākou mau ʻohana a hāʻawi i nā kumuwaiwai ʻelua e pale aku ai i nā keiki mai ka nānā ʻana i nā ponokala kiʻi a e mālama ai i nā poʻe e ʻehaʻeha nei i nā hopena maikaʻi ʻole.

Manaʻo'ōlelo

Makemake wau e'ōlelo i kahi puke no nā mākua, kumu, a me nā meaʻoihana. Kanaka, Hoʻokaʻawale - No ke aha e hakakā nei nā kāne ʻōpio a me nā mea e hiki ai iā mākou ke hana e pili ana i ia na Stanford Psychology Kumu Philip Zimbardo lāua ʻo Nikita Coulombe. Kūkulu ia ma ke kamaʻilio TED maikaʻi loa a Professor Zimbardo 4 minuke ʻO ka Demise of Guys ʻo ia ka hoa kamaʻilio i kamaʻilio pū me kā mākou hoa hanaʻo Gary Wilson i ka'ōlelo kaulana a TEDx ʻO ka hōʻailona o ka Porn Porn.

ʻO ka papahana o kēia puke,ʻo ia kā mākou e kū nei i kahi honua houʻole. he honua kahi i haʻaleleʻia ai nā'ōpio. Ua'ōlelo nā mea kākau i ka hana kuʻiʻana i nā pāʻani vidio a me nā porn pūnaewele i kekahi hanauna hoʻohilahila, ka pilina o ke kanaka, ka laweʻana i ka naʻau, a me nā kānaka'ōpio kūponoʻole i hikiʻole (a makemakeʻole) e hoʻokele i nā pilikia a me nā pilikino e pili ana i ka pilina maoli , ke kula, a me ka hana. Ke nānā nei i kahiʻano koʻikoʻi i kahi pilikia e haehae nei i nāʻohana a me nā lāhui ma nā wahi a pau, Ka Man, Hoʻokuke ke hōʻike nei i kā mākou mau'ōpio i ka maʻi hou. Hoʻomākaukauʻo ia i kahi manaʻo hou wiwoʻole no ka hoʻihoʻiʻana iā lākou ma ke ala.

Māhele nā ​​mokuna hope loa i nā manaʻo e hiki ke hoʻopiliʻia e nāʻano likeʻole o ke kaiaulu,ʻo ia hoʻi nā kula, nā mākua, a me nā kāne'ōpio. Hoʻopihaʻia me ka haʻiʻana i nā'ōlelo hoʻopiʻi, nā hualoaʻa o kaʻimi noiʻi hoihoi, nā unuhi maʻamau, a me nā manaʻo hoʻohihi no ka loli, Man, Hoʻopilikiaʻia he puke no ko mākou manawa. He puke ia e hoʻomaopopo ana, nā pilikia, a ke hoʻoikaika nei.

ninaninau 'ana

Ma nā mahinaʻelua i hala aku nei, ua ninaninau mākou iʻehā mau mea akamai.

I ka mahinaʻo Iune ua nīnau mākou iā Kenneth Cloggie, he'Edinburgh luna kānāwai loio ke ho'ākāka nei i ke kaʻina hana e hiki i ka makua a me ke keiki ke kū'ē inā hoʻoiliʻia me kahi hana moe kolohe. Uaʻikeʻo ia i ka piʻiʻana o nā hewa e pili ana i ka hewa o ka pūnaewele. E hōʻikeʻia kāna hālāwai ninaninau ma ka pūnaewele i ka manawa kūpono.

ʻOiai mākou e kipa ana iāʻAmelika i Iulai, ua hana mākou i ka hālāwai ninaninau 45 me Liz Walker, he alakaʻi wahine hoʻonaʻauao. Ua hōʻike muaʻiaʻo Liz i nā kiʻi ponoʻole loa ma ka papa kula kahi 6 mau makahiki. Kāna moʻolelo heluhelu maikaʻi. I kēia manawa ua hana pūʻo ia me ka mea hoʻolako porn porn Professor Gail Dines ma Kuhi Kupa.

ʻO Paula Banca (kiʻiʻia ma lalo), a kaiaulu neuroscience mai ke Kulanui o Cambridge e hāʻawi i kaʻike maikaʻi i ka pepa noiʻi i hoʻopukaʻia e ia No ka hōʻano hou, ka paʻiʻana a me ka nānā pono i ka uku pili i nā pili pili kālā. Ua ʻike ʻia kēia noiʻi maikaʻi loa ke lanakila ʻana i ka makana ʻimi noiʻi 2016 mai ka ʻAhahui no ka holomua o ke olakino moekolohe.

Ma hope o Scotland, ua hana mākou i ka hālāwai kūkā mua me Anne Chilton, ke poʻo o ka Polokalamu Hana Hana no ke Kōkākūkāʻana me nā moku'āina Scotland e aʻo e pili ana i ke kaʻina hana aʻo no nā hoʻoponopono kāne male ma Scotland. Ua'ōleloʻo ia aia kahi e pili ana i nā mea hana o 30 i kēia manawa i hoʻonaʻauaoʻia no ka lawelaweʻana i nā kāne a me ka piʻiʻana o nā pilikia pili i ka moekino pili kino. Ua hopohopoʻo ia i ka nui o ke kōkua kālā i loaʻa mai ma ke aupuniʻo Scottish no kēia ulu uluʻana.

Hoʻihoʻi kālā i nā kula

E hoʻopukaʻo TRF nā papa i nā haumāna ma Edinburgh Academy, nā kula ʻo George Watson a me St. Columba ma Kilmacolm e pili ana i ka hopena o nā ponokala pūnaewele i ke olakino, nā pilina, nā lawehala a me nā pilina e hoʻomaka ana ʻo 1 Kepakemapa. E kamaʻilio pū ana mākou me nā mākua a me nā haumāna ma ka Hōʻike Hōʻikeʻikeʻo George Watson ma Kepakemapa a hiki i makua o nā haumāna ma ke Kulaʻo Taboo,ʻEnelani maʻOkakopa.

Kauka i'Edinburgh

Ma ka 13th ʻOkakopa ke hāʻawi nei mākou i kahi haʻi ʻōlelo i ka Medico-Chirurgical Society of Edinburghe pili ana i ka hopena o ka pono pūnaewele i ka olakino'ōpio. Ke kūlahalaha kēia Lāhui i nā mea lapaʻau mai ka 1821.

E hoʻolohe iā mākou e'ōlelo ana ma'Edinburgh

E hele mai a hui pū me mākou ma ka lā 16th o Nowemapa i ka Hale Kānāwai o ka ʻAukake Hui Pū ʻIa ʻo Augustine, 41 George IV Bridge, Edinburgh, EH1 1EL ke lilo ko mākou CEO ʻo Mary Sharpe i mea kamaʻilio nui ma ke ʻano he ʻāpana o ka Edinburgh International Center for Spirituality and Peace laulima. E kamaʻilio ʻo ia e pili ana i ka “ʻUhane, ke Aloha a me ka Pohō”. E ukali ʻia kēia e kahi kūkākūkā panela me nā loea ʻē aʻe e like me ka makua a me ka hope poʻo kumu ʻo Audrey Fairgrieve, me ka makuakāne a me ka mea hoʻolaha olakino, Douglas Guest. E hoʻolauna ʻia nā mea ʻōlelo e Darryl Mead, ka noho o ka Reward Foundation.

Ka Hui ma USA

E hāʻawi ana mākou i kahi hālāwai hoʻolālā i nā kumu lapaʻau, nā kumu aʻo a me nā loio i ka hālāwai makahiki o ka ʻOihana no ka holomua o ka ola kino ma Salt Lake City ma ka 5-7ʻOkakopa. ʻO ka inoa i kēia makahiki ʻO ka Ola Ola ma loko o ka Digital World.

ʻO ka hālāwaiʻohana ma Croatia

Ma ka lā 21 ʻOkakopa e ʻōlelo ana mākou i ka makahiki hui kūkākūkāʻohana ma Zagreb, Croatia i kapa ʻia ʻo “ʻohana, nā kula: ke kī i ke kūʻokoʻa mai ka hoʻāuna ʻana”. E hoʻomaka kā mākou hāʻawi me kahi haʻi ʻōlelo i ke kakahiaka a alakaʻi mākou i kahi papa hana ma hope i ka lā.

ʻO ke kaula hou no ka Reward Foundation

Ua hoʻololi hou mākou mai "ko mākou lolo ma ke aloha a me ka wahine" ma hope o ka Reward Foundation, i "ke aloha, ka wahine, a me ka pūnaewele". ʻO ka manaʻo,ʻo ia ke hoʻololi i ka manaʻo i ka pūnaewele me ka'ōleloʻoleʻana i ka hua'ōlelo "porn". Ke hoʻomau nei mākou e aʻo e pili ana i ka pūnaewele uku o ka lolo. Uaʻike kekahi poʻe i ka'ōlelo "brain" i kahi o ka waihoʻana, manaʻoʻiʻo i kaʻike mua o ka lāʻau a iʻole ka neuroscience i pono e heluhelu i kā mākou mau mea. ʻAʻole kēia ka hihia.

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